Before & After...

Y everybody is creating such sentence...

Before Married, he can give her 100% of care
After Married, he won't care

Before Married, he do whtever for her
After Married, he sit and see whtever she did

Before Married, he wait for her to be safely reach home
After Married, he sleep first before she is home

Before Married, he sleep later than her & wake up earlier than her
After Married, he sleep earlier than her & wake up later than her

Before Married, he call you frequently for fun
After Married, he call when he needs her only

Before Married, he can "sabar" all her fault when argue
After Married, he throw all the fault to her when argue

All this endless before & after will make a couple down... women always rite or Men always fault?? Maybe men should think back of all the sentences up there?? Y women agreed on it?? It's not bcoz we wan to blame only, it's becoz guy changing without knowing it... so we blaming while indirectly "concious" their mind... ;>

Dis morning, my boss talk abt fair & unfair... comes to my mind tht... yes, the endless before & after oso related to fair & unfair... dis world has no "FAIR"... Bullshit!!! So are de same of guys treating gals... unfair??!! ;p

Conclusion, fair & unfair / before & after, all are depends on how u argue... I very agreed that arguement can help improvement and oso understand that more arguement will caused relationship problem, but it's my character... Can't pretend that I'm death... can't see, can't hear, can't feel, can't speak... *signh* bad bad attitude hor??!! ;>

Halloween Nite...

31.10.09... Halloween Nite, my Bad Day!!!

Today, as usual I went to work my own... my husband t k for children... after work @ 1pm, I enjoy Hi-Tea at coffee house with my colleague till abt 2pm, my husband request for McD delivery (from me) but due to inconvenient for me, so I change him a KFC delivery...

While on da way... accident happened on me... a Toyota Innova in front of me turn into the right way, and me go straight ofcoz lo... suddenly, the Toyota Innova turn back to my way (who the Malay woman told tht she noticed it was one way...) shit!!! Then my car alr at her side and she din notice, straight away 'tekan minyak' and bang to my car... WTF!!! I have activated my horn since I notice her tyre like turning to my way... wondering is she "PEKAK!!!"

She keep apologize, so lembut hati liaw lo... she said she no money to pay me... Drive Toyota Innova no money... F***!!! no choice lo... she insist wanna report and claim insurance... She said she's been paid for insurance so long and nv claimed b4... it's wasted... Dis sentence make me "teh tio"... No money to pay me, but got money to pay for insurance without NCB deduction... how's malay calculation!!!! ;< Then without any voice of me... juz follow her instruction lo.. wht can I do... not my fault.. can I forget abt it??? I cannot!!!

Then wasted my time go to HQ Traffic police station with jam of 1hr... + waited in the police station of 2 hrs... my whole Sat gone meaningless... ;<

Then I contacted my foreman on the repairing time consume... nabeh!! He said need to wait for de insurance adjuzter come n take photos all tht only can start to repair... sometimes fast sometimes slow, it's depends on the adjuzter... OMG!!!!!!!

It's fate la... mayb i cross the road to pack McD will cause accident hit on my body, compare to this hit to the car lo... Thank God I'm alive oso!!! -_-